Moving Toward Healing and Peace – Expanding the Conversation with the Peace Lily

Every Remembrance Day, millions of people wear the red poppy to honour the sacrifices of those who served in the military. The poppy has a rich history, rooted in the tragedy of war, resilience, and remembrance, inspired by the fields of Flanders that bloomed with red flowers amidst devastation. The red poppy serves as a symbol of loss, bravery, and respect for those who have given everything for their country.

The red poppy is an unmistakable emblem, particularly in Commonwealth countries. It’s worn with pride, respect, and solemnity. For many, it represents both sorrow and resilience, two intertwined aspects of the wartime experience. However, as a symbol, it has complex meanings. For those who have lost loved ones to war or served themselves, the red poppy honours the sacrifice that war unfortunately demands. Yet, for others, the red poppy can feel like a reinforcement of the inevitability of war. Its bright red colour, reminiscent of blood, can symbolize the reality of battle rather than the hope for peace.

Considering, could there be a way to shift the focus towards peace, empathy, and the dream of a world without conflict, without taking away from the ones who have suffered from the consequences of war?

The poppy reminds us of what was lost, but not necessarily of what we should strive to gain. It is a symbol of looking back with respect, but it may not always serve as a reminder of our hope for a future free from war.

In my opinion, the white peace lily, could potentially offer an alternative that complements remembrance with an added layer: the promise of peace. It’s a symbol of empathy and the aspiration to avoid repeating the tragic cycles of conflict. It doesn’t negate the sacrifices made in war but points to a broader, more hopeful future. The peace lily also represents healing. It suggests growth, resilience, and the ability to move forward, a fitting symbol for post-war healing and the dream of a more peaceful world.

This shift in perspective doesn’t necessarily dismiss the meaning of the red poppy; it simply invites a gentle reflection on how we might honour those who sacrificed for peace, not just on battlefield but in every effort to foster understanding and compassion. It is about renewing our commitment to making the world a place where fewer people have to endure the tragedies of war and embracing the hope for a peaceful future.

 

Peace lily image from: www.flaticon.com